A North London family is offering an extraordinary £180,000 annual salary for a private tutor to guide their one-year-old son in becoming a proper English gentleman. The role involves immersing the child in a comprehensive British cultural environment, with clear academic aims designed to foster early intellectual curiosity and dual cultural fluency.

The family seeks an exceptional and experienced tutor, preferably with a socially appropriate background and upbringing consistent with elite British society. The ideal candidate should be highly educated, possess an extensive vocabulary, and speak with Received Pronunciation. Former attendees of prestigious schools and universities in England, with prior experience working with ultra-high-net-worth or royal families, are particularly sought after. A non-smoking, fit, and healthy individual is preferred for this unique position.

The tutor’s responsibilities extend beyond academic learning to encompass exposure to an array of quintessentially British experiences. These include visits to iconic venues such as Lord's cricket ground, Wimbledon tennis championships, and Twickenham rugby stadium, alongside introducing the child to sports like cricket, tennis, rugby, equestrianism (including polo), and rowing. There is also a cultural emphasis on classical music and other pursuits nurturing the child’s social manners and outlook.

This initiative stems from the parents' desire to immerse their child in British culture and subtle social nuances before any cultural bias takes root. They believe this early intervention is crucial, having found that starting such cultural education at age five with their elder son was too late to fully realise their aspirations. Their broader aim is for the boy to gain acceptance to a top-flight private school such as Eton, St Paul’s, Westminster, or Harrow.

The role is live-out, involves working five days a week from approximately 10 am to 3 pm, with additional preparation time, and may occasionally include weekend duties as the child grows. The family will provide a car and driver for outings, and the initial contract is for 12 months, with potential for long-term renewal.

Tutors International, which is managing the recruitment, confirmed the legitimacy of the job, admitting initial scepticism due to the unusual nature of the advert. Its founder, Adam Caller, explained that the family comes from a part of the world with very different behavioural norms. Their goal is to raise a bicultural child indistinguishable from one brought up entirely within the UK by mastering the intricacies of mannerisms, interests, communication style, and understanding.

This rare and highly specialized position highlights the lengths some families will go to in shaping their children’s cultural foundations and social futures from the earliest possible stage.

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Source: Noah Wire Services